Alex Primo

Are you struggling with pornography or unwanted sexual behavior? Are you desiring to make a change, find healing and be free from your addiction? Are you feeling distant from God with immense feelings of guilt and shame? Have you tried to kick your habit but find your yourself still going back? Do you experience short lived highs and extreme lows making you feel more alone and more unwanted than before?

When shame is a significant voice in your attempts to change your habits, it can say you are not good enough and you are unlovable for who you are or what you have done. Shame says you are defined by your addiction, but this is not true. Your addiction does not define you; you are worthy to be loved and you do not have to do this alone.
There is hope for you to find freedom from your pornography and sexual addiction. I can help you explore the reasons you keep going back, understand the deeper feelings driving you to this place and provide practical steps to help you start recovery. I work with men 1-on-1 and provide support through group therapy with other men who are on the same recovery journey.
If you are ready to take the first step give me a call for a free 15-minute consultation.

Couples Therapy:

Has trust been lost and you don’t know how you can repair? Has the pain of betrayal left you feeling angry, alone and unloved? Has the secrets and the lies behind watching pornography damaged intimacy and created feelings of rejection? These things can leave you feeling hopeless and uncertain how to move forward. The anger makes you want to walk away, but the desperate desire to be loved draws you to stay.

Your feelings makes sense. It might be hard to believe there is hope for your relationship, but there is. I help couples find stability and build safety with each other that gives space to build trust again. We explore the patterns that have existed in your relationship and work to break the cycles. I help identify where you are getting stuck and begin to explore how to share your feelings and needs with each other so you can feel heard and seen. There is hope to restore the trust and intimacy in your relationship.
You can schedule a free 15-minute consultation by calling me at 818-875-9017 or emailing me at [email protected].

***I am currently providing therapy via video to men and couples located in California***